What's in a Name? {How Our Names Shape Our Identity} | alyssajhoward.comThe moment I found out that I was pregnant, it began – the name game. It took a while for me and my husband to agree on names (for both our girls); but once we gave them their names, that was it. They became their names. We talked about them and to them by name before they were born. Even during labor, my midwife would call my daughters by their names.

Names are important. If they weren’t, parents wouldn’t spend so much time agonizing over the perfect names for their children. They will be called by that name for their entire existence.

 

Once upon a time, however, names had even greater meaning. Today, we can look up name meanings in baby name books, but in the Old Testament, that wasn’t necessary. The name meaning was in fact their actual name. 

A clear example of this is found in the book of Genesis. Jacob and his wife Rachel were about to have their son.

 

Leaving Bethel, Jacob and his clan moved on toward Ephrath. But Rachel went into labor while they were still some distance away. Her labor pains were intense. After a very hard delivery, the midwife finally exclaimed, “Don’t be afraid—you have another son!” Rachel was about to die, but with her last breath she named the baby Ben-oni (which means “son of my sorrow”). The baby’s father, however, called him Benjamin (which means “son of my right hand”).Genesis 35:16-18 (NLT)

 

What's in a Name? {How Our Names Shape Our Identity} | alyssajhoward.com“Benjamin” is simply Hebrew for “son of my right hand.” In English, we hear the word “Benjamin,” but Benjamin spoke Hebrew and would have heard his family call him “son of my right hand” every day of his life. Can you imagine if Jacob had kept his original name “son of my sorrow”? How would that have shaped the life of Benjamin? How would he have viewed himself in relation to his mother’s death?

 

We see other examples throughout Scripture regarding the importance of names. One of most well-known was Abram who was given a name change at 99 years of age. God changed his name from Abram (“exalted father”) to Abraham (“father of many”). It symbolized the covenant God was making with him to make him the father of many nations. It was important to God that his name reflected that new truth in his life.

 

Needless to say, names are important. They shape our identities. They define us. The Bible says that in Christ, we are called righteous, blessed, children of God, the bride of Christ, royalty, priests, a new creation, the light of the world, and many more. We are no longer sinners and slaves. We now see and hear the truth fully through the power of the Holy Spirit. We are no longer foolish, but have access to the wisdom and truth of God.

 

Two take-away truths:

Be mindful of the names we give to others. Without thinking, we say things that we shouldn’t say and define people in a way that is contrary to God’s Word. We call people “idiots” or “dumb” when they cut us off in traffic or offend us in some way. But the truth is that names mean something. When someone calls you by a name over and over again, you subconsciously begin to shape your identity around it. So as believers, we need to be calling people by their new identities in Christ – by who they have the potential of being as children of God.

Be mindful of the names you give yourself. I believe this one can be more challenging than the first. How you see yourself matters to God. Why? Because it affects your effectiveness for Him. How are we supposed to walk in our new God-given identities of freedom when we keep telling ourselves that we’re still slaves to sin? There’s no room for a self-defeated attitude in the body of Christ. We are called to rise up and be effective for the Kingdom. We can’t do that if we’re hiding away thinking the worst of ourselves.

 

Don’t allow your past identity before Christ to affect how you see your new identity in Christ.

 

You are a new creation. God calls you by many new names, and none of them are negative.

 

But when the right time came, God sent his Son, born of a woman, subject to the law. God sent him to buy freedom for us who were slaves to the law, so that he could adopt us as his very own children. And because we are his children, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, prompting us to call out, “Abba, Father.” Now you are no longer a slave but God’s own child. And since you are his child, God has made you his heir.Galatians 4:4-7 (NLT)

 

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3 thoughts on “What’s in a Name? {How Our Names Shape Our Identity}”

  1. Can you imagine if Benjamin’s father would have decided to keep the child’s name as, “son of my sorrow.” Oh my how that would have influenced his life! I much appreciate how you say we need to be mindful of the names we call others and ourselves. I too agree that the names we call ourselves can be much harder to tame but thank God that He works in us to show us just as He sees us – His beautiful children. Blessings to you on this Friday Alyssa.

    1. Thank you, Crystal. And yes… Benjamin’s life would have been marked by his mother’s death had his father not changed his name. I can’t even imagine being Benjamin and having to live with that. We don’t place as much importance on names today as they did throughout the Old Testament, but I still believe they hold the same power. We can’t speak words of discouragement and disapproval to those around us all the time and not think that it might be affecting how they view themselves. I really see this truth with my girls. They care SO MUCH about how we see them. I need to be mindful as a mother to make sure my girls know who amazingly loved they are! I want them to grow up seeing themselves the way God sees them. That way when the world tries to tell them otherwise, they will know the truth and be able to stand firm in it. 🙂

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